Bethany McIlrath

First and Second: Perspective On What Matters Most (Matthew 22:36-40)

The Gift of Living Out of Context

We recently had the privilege of spending a week exploring England. It’s been a while since I took a whole week off! Rest is not my strong suit.

When we got back, a friend who also recently took a vacation commented, “now that I am back, I feel like I remembered that I’m a person and not just my roles.”

That struck a chord as I settle back into the usual routine. I don’t mean to live like I’m the sum of my roles, but it’s easy to slip into that mindset. Rest, travel, and no data on my phone took me out of several roles for our week away. It was like living out of context – and for that, I’m grateful.

Here’s to lessons learned and re-learned by living out of my usual context, lessons like:

  • Not multi-tasking gives my mind and soul room to breathe
  • Reading before bed beats TV before bed
  • Daily walks are underrated, the fresh air and movement are worth the time

  • Art and history aren’t just niceties, they’re stretching and inspiring and filling
  • Overthinking what happened each day isn’t as helpful as I assume in the moment

  • Trying new foods – even just a bite – is pretty fun
  • Airplane mode is a great way to stop mindless scrolling

  • Digital connection isn’t the same as time together in person (so grateful for my dear colleagues in the UK, and for getting to meet the amazing Lesley in person!)
  • Awe of God’s creation and work in His people is extra-sweet when you go slow and savor it

  • Matt’s pretty great, even if his British accent isn’t (he’ll either be chuffed or gutted I included this note, we’ll see…)

Pictured, not in order: Wonderful people, Winnat’s Pass, Peak District, Peveril Castle, York Minster, York walls, The Parthenon Sculptures, Matt smelling a phone booth, Seurat’s Grandcamp. There are a few thousand more, but another day…Ā 

What have you learned when living out of context for a time?


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6 responses to “The Gift of Living Out of Context”

  1. Lois Flowers Avatar

    Bethany, I’m chuffed that you and Matt got to experience England together … and without data! What a great way to learn these valuable lessons. šŸ™‚

    1. mbethany Avatar

      Haha, lovely use of “chuffed!” šŸ™‚ Thanks, Lois!

  2. Carlie Avatar

    I just came back from England as well, Bethany, but I was on a different mission – dropping my daughter off at uni. I enjoyed reading the lessons you learned living out of context, they are good reminders for us all.

    1. mbethany Avatar

      Oh wow, what a mission! Hope she loves uni there!!

  3. Cheryl Avatar

    This sounds wonderful! I remember our blogging paths crossing, at some point in the past, so it was wonderful to visit with you here again today! It is always good to see that someone is still faithfully blogging. God bless you!

    1. mbethany Avatar
      mbethany

      Thanks, Cheryl! Great to cross paths with you again too!

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