Bethany McIlrath

First and Second: Perspective On What Matters Most (Matthew 22:36-40)

Tag: change

  • Helping A Child Through a Big Life Change

    Helping A Child Through a Big Life Change

    Change is messy. Even when we’re well-prepared. Even when we’re excited about it. This is true for kids experiencing seasons of transition, like when they move homes or schools, get their first job, or join a new club. However they feel about the change before it happens, there’s a good chance there will be bumps…

  • But Jesus…

    But Jesus…

    There were big things to do. There throngs willing to listen who needed to hear. There were disciples seeking training and teaching. “But Jesus often withdrew to lonely places and prayed.” –Luke 5:16 Jesus often didn’t do what we’d expect, and calls us to live differently, too. Join me at Recharge Wednesday for a list of…

  • 3 Laws of Change

    3 Laws of Change

    Her wrinkled hand clasped my arm for stability as we took a slight step down. “I need help ever since it happened,” she said apologetically. “Since what?” I asked, unsure if she had an injury I hadn’t heard about and ought to be aware of. Playfully, she shot back, “since I got old!” The sweet…

  • Who is Paying the Price? (Mini-Series)

    Who is Paying the Price? (Mini-Series)

    When my guy and I were first married, we lived and worked in an inn. Our “front” door opened into the front office. Guests checking in smelled whatever I’d made for dinner, and co-workers would have needed earplugs to not overhear what was said in our living room. The proximity to others was a privilege-…

  • But Jesus

    But Jesus

    There were big things to do. There throngs willing to listen who needed to hear. There were disciples seeking training and teaching. “But Jesus often withdrew to lonely places and prayed.” –Luke 5:16   There were people to heal. There were lost souls to share the Gospel with. There were places to get to, people…

  • Is This the Change You’re Looking For?

    Is This the Change You’re Looking For?

    Having just traveled a few states to work in the summer heat, it was admirable how upbeat the youth were. Their mission trip involved hard work laboring to repair homes and make helpful upgrades. They spent a lot of time in one house rebuilding part of a damaged wall. Everything from measuring to cutting to…

  • A Sure Foundation

    A Sure Foundation

    One by one. Ever so carefully. We stacked the pieces with fingers crossed. The tower stood tall, having occupied myself, a teenage helper, and several nursery kiddos for most of our time together. All it took was one wide-eyed, deviously grinning four year old. He slipped through our grasp, and, with one swift kick, it…

  • Spring Starts With a Thaw

    Spring Starts With a Thaw

    Some seasons feel like just getting by. Though God provides what we need, we receive His gifts coolly. Like the frozen ground in winter, we see the blessings drifting down as a mere covering until at last the sun comes again. We’re numb with the cold of same old, same old. Habituated to our hurts…

  • Uncovering Ulterior Motives (A Free, Simple Formula)

    Uncovering Ulterior Motives (A Free, Simple Formula)

    Sometimes our motives are obvious. Other times, we have ulterior motives guiding us, affecting our decision-making and discernment. For me, guilt has often been an ulterior motive. Every time the teacher reprimanded the whole class for bad behavior instead of singling someone out, I was sure it was all my fault. Even now, if a…

  • God Leads One Step at a Time

    God Leads One Step at a Time

    The first time I heard “The Very Next Thing” on the radio in my car, I memorized most of the words. Or rather, they just stuck. I was basically a sitting duck for the message. Spinning my wheels in a rut, I’d been so afraid of unknowns I was letting obligation determine my next steps…