Bethany McIlrath

First and Second: Perspective On What Matters Most (Matthew 22:36-40)

Tag: Prayer

  • Why I Love Praying ‘All is Yours’

    Why I Love Praying ‘All is Yours’

    I don’t remember how or when it started, but at some point, I frequently began praying, “all is yours.” Many of my prayers are punctuated with this simple recollection. It’s a refrain that sticks with me because it so helpfully redirects my perspective.   Remembering that all is the Lord’s helps me to… Acknowledge Acknowledging that…

  • Who Do We Ask for Help?

    Who Do We Ask for Help?

    Sometimes, when I feel particularly overwhelmed by problems of my own and others, I find myself wishing there was more I could do than pray. Prayer just doesn’t feel like enough. But when I recognize who it is that I am asking for help when I pray, I see how much better His help is…

  • Believing the Best of God

    Believing the Best of God

    Have you ever told someone a story, only to have them remind you they were there? Sometimes, while we’re talking, we forget to whom we are speaking: of course we remember their identity at a basic level, but we might also assume something of them inaccurately . . . like their presence or absence on…

  • The Goodbye We Never Have To Say

    The Goodbye We Never Have To Say

    “See you later, alligator.” “Speak soon.” “Until next time.” Why do we find all sorts of creative ways to say goodbye, even if we’re only going to be apart for a few hours? “Goodbye” feels weighty, even when it isn’t final. It reminds us of the limits of relationships. There are always separations. We aren’t…

  • Comfort in Prayer

    Comfort in Prayer

    My prayer list felt awfully long. As I lifted each name to the Lord, and the thoughts, worries, hopes, and requests pertaining to each one, I felt heavy. There’s just so much suffering, so much unknown. There are just so many people who need Jesus- all of us, in fact. I know God’s not a…

  • 5 Encouragements When All You Can Do Is Pray

    5 Encouragements When All You Can Do Is Pray

    I wrote the following post before COVID-19 was an issue. How much more real this is today, when we feel helpless in the face of suffering, unable to even extend a hug… If I’m honest, “just praying” makes me feel helpless. The frustration and despair in my heart when I’m told all I can do…

  • Settling for Crumbs

    Settling for Crumbs

    It was a long drive, and the dog spent the first 4 hours on my lap. He hadn’t been fed much that morning (to reduce the number of stops needed.) For our food-obsessed pet, a small breakfast is a big deal. Eyes laser-focused, he watched as we nibbled on snacks here and there, sniffing the…

  • Thinking on What We Already Have

    Thinking on What We Already Have

    Anyone else wake up thinking through their to-do list? Or zone out mid-conversation because someone said something that reminded you of another item to add to your to-do list? Many of us spend more time thinking about we need, want, or plan on than what we already have. What We Have as God’s Children The…

  • Don’t Quit Praying When It’s “Over”

    Don’t Quit Praying When It’s “Over”

    We pray before we eat. Before our days begin. Before we go to sleep. Often, we pray before big events and decisions. We pray as loved ones face difficulties. But we don’t have to stop there. We can keep praying after. God doesn’t say “cease praying” after the test results suggest the worst or the…

  • More of God Book Review

    More of God Book Review

    6am. My phone alarm rang obnoxiously even though it was still dark. I had a new job, plus my old job, and a renewed commitment to spending time focused specifically on God. Every (very busy) day.  Some part of my heart got up so early because I actually wanted to grow in my walk with…