“The end,” the story says. Script writers know that to successfully complete a TV series or movie, you must wrap up the loose ends. At the end of a person’s life, there is a service to conclude their time on earth.
When you get sick, one of the first questions you ask the doctor is “when will I will be better?”
After a tragedy occurs, there is a point in which restitution is expected: the check arrives, the new house is moved into, the perpetrator goes to jail.
You see, it’s in our nature to desire closure.
To be frank, as we’re told from a young age that our lives will be whatever we determine for ourselves, there is no consideration that we might not get a happy ending after all.
Even in our Jesus’-loving, hope-filled circles we tend to dismiss the idea of leaving loose ends, never receiving that apology or forgiveness, or that some actions will never be made right.
In a way, that’s wrong. In another way, it’s very right.
God never promises 'happy endings' in this lifetime. Share on XHe never says we’ll get our desired explanations for why an illness is both chronic and untreatable, or why a crime goes unsolved. Or why the wicked prosper. Or why the steadfast suffer needlessly. Or why hurricanes wipe out whole countries.
But we’re still to have faith.
“These were all commended for their faith, yet none of them received what had been promised” Hebrews 11:39
Moses died without entering the promised land. Isaiah died without watching the Savior who he so often spoke of and advocated for arrive or save the world. There were many others.
Yet Hebrews 11:40 continues:
“since God had planned something better for us so that only together with us would they be made perfect.”
As you face the many unclosed doors, loose threads, and “never-seem-to-ends” of life, you have the option to live faithfully.
You and I can place our hope in the one “happily ever after” that we can count on: Christ’s.
That’s where we get it right when we remind those hurting, suffering, and struggling with closure that it will come and it will be okay. Maybe not now. Possibly (in some cases probably) not even on this earth. But looking toward the “the end” of eternity, you can humbly live out Psalm 131:
“My heart is not proud, Lord,
my eyes are not haughty;
I do not concern myself with great matters
or things too wonderful for me.But I have calmed and quieted myself,
I am like a weaned child with its mother;
like a weaned child I am content.Israel, put your hope in the Lord
both now and forevermore.”
Humbly, without closure, accept that you don’t need it and there is no way to earn it. Recognize that some things are bigger than you can understand –and that includes Him working all things wonderfully for good.
Calm and quiet yourself. As Hebrews 6 describes, choose solid food as one mature in the faith. Choose to:
“Have this hope as an anchor for the soul, firm and secure. It enters the inner sanctuary behind the curtain, where our forerunner, Jesus, has entered on our behalf” Hebrews 6:19-20
Your hope can be in the Lord now –even without closure- and in the forevermore –in which all is right in His presence, including those who love the Lord.
{Originally published on My Faith Radio}
((He’s alive! It’s still not over yet! Happy Resurrection Sunday!))
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I’m one of those people who likes closure. 🙂 But I’m trying to live more and more embracing mystery. There are so many things that are unknowable, and for good reason! “Recognize that some things are bigger than you can understand –and that includes Him working all things wonderfully for good.” Amen!
I like closure too, Lisa! (I’m so guilty of skipping to the end or reading the plot summaries of TV shows for that reason!!) So thankful that we can trust God with the unknowable. His mysteries are in line with His character : )
I desire closure too. And I don’t like movies or shows that don’t wrap up all the ends in a tidy way. But I guess, like you said, there’s not a happily ever after on this earth. But I’m so grateful that when the ends are left hanging from my viewpoint, I can still trust that God has it all taken care of. thanks!
Amen, He does! That gives hope for ultimate happy endings. Thank you for reading and commenting!