Bethany McIlrath

First and Second: Perspective On What Matters Most (Matthew 22:36-40)

Tag: bible

  • O Little Town of Mayhem

    O Little Town of Mayhem

    It seems Bethlehem was busy the night Jesus was born. Many people were traveling for the census, so Joseph and Mary found no traditional lodging. We can identify with that element of the Christmas story. This season often feels overwhelming, busy, and too full. But in the midst of the mayhem on that starry night…

  • It’s Almost The (Maybe) Wonderful Time of the Year

    It’s Almost The (Maybe) Wonderful Time of the Year

    Soon the roasted turkey will be packed away for future meals. The pie dishes will be rinsed clean. It often seems that all those thanks are then simply swept away as we hurry to get ready for Jesus coming. We are a people of “next things.” In our present time, the end of Thanksgiving seems…

  • Her Utmost for His Highest

    Her Utmost for His Highest

    The greenish book seemed odd to me as I quickly paged through. “Thank you,” I murmured with confusion as the older woman patted my hand and said she’d be praying. I was off to the mission field, and she’d given me a copy of Oswald Chambers’ My Utmost for His Highest. She didn’t know it,…

  • 10 Ways Smartphones are the Adult Version of Invisible Friends

    10 Ways Smartphones are the Adult Version of Invisible Friends

    Remember when you were five and had an invisible friend? It’s pretty normal, with an estimated 37% of kids hanging out with friends that don’t exist. For a lot of kids, invisible friends are used for companionship and connection. If you think about it, a lot of adults use their smartphones in a similar way….

  • Shutting Down Over-Productivity

    Shutting Down Over-Productivity

    Lord knows I’m a planner and producer. Productivity could be my middle name. I’ve got files and folders physical and digital stretching my future hopes into step-by-step endeavors. If you’ve got a topic to talk about, I’ve got a project you’re contributing to. The most visited destination in my mind is my idea mill. It’s…

  • It’s Not Me, It’s You (And That’s Okay)

    It’s Not Me, It’s You (And That’s Okay)

    “It’s not me, it’s you….” The bad breakup line always seemed so unfair. It’s been my habit to live life assuming there’s always something I can do…some level of responsibility I have to take if I’m truly loving. But over the years, I’ve met the people-pleasers dilemma: some people aren’t pleasable. Living this truth has…

  • Grappling with Sanctification

    Grappling with Sanctification

    I was sitting on a sofa best described as peach in color, though I’ve never seen a peach that hue. The almost bare walls looked about as lonely as I felt. My computer screen offered the only light of that dreary day. Fingers poised, I searched for words but found more than I could organize…

  • What The Millennial Generation Needs to Know About the Goal of Faith

    What The Millennial Generation Needs to Know About the Goal of Faith

    For many millennials entering adulthood, the truth that we all compete for a prize is a shock. Painted high on the concrete wall of my elementary school gym, next to a friendly cartoon character, were the words, If you had fun, you won. It was as simple as that. We received participation trophies whether we failed…

  • Remember When You First Heard about Jesus?

    Remember When You First Heard about Jesus?

    Do you remember when you first heard about Jesus? Or God? Or church? I mean the first, first time. When the words were brand new and meant nothing yet to you. Most of us don’t remember that “first” precisely. These are words and concepts that may have been whispered over you in the womb or…

  • Letting Joy Last

    Letting Joy Last

    I had good news. A bunch of it, actually. It seemed the Lord decided to bless my husband and I immensely all at once, in so many ways. As I told my friend, I smiled with joy…and then I moved on. Instead of praising the Lord with my friend and laughing and simply enjoying the…