Bethany McIlrath

First and Second: Perspective On What Matters Most (Matthew 22:36-40)

Finding Contentment Christmas Series

O Come All Ye Frustrated

In just a few weeks, someone or other will ask us: “how was your Christmas?”

Chances are our answers won’t include words like “perfect” or “flawless.”

It’s just a fact that Christmas celebrations tend to carry with them mistakes and messes. Something unexpected happens. Some gifts don’t arrive on time. Someone isn’t satisfied.

The first Christmas was not void of frustration, either:

  • Joseph almost divorced Mary over her pregnancy with God’s son (Matt 1:19)
  • The couple had to travel- sans cars- about 80 miles just before she was due (Lk 2:4-5)
  • She had to give birth to the Messiah in a stable (Lk 2:6)
  • The young family had to flee to Egypt because a king was out to kill baby Jesus! (Matt 2:13)

Most people involved in any way with Jesus’ birth needed to hear the calming words “do not be afraid!”

Bible verse anticipating and announcing the birth of Christ which is good news for the frustrated

God through his angels spokes those words. Then, when Jesus was grown, He did too. Over and over again.

At Christmas time, it doesn’t seem like “do not be afraid” are words as important as “be merry” or “wishing you peace.” But our tendency toward frustration reveals otherwise.

Our lives seem to sing:

Parody christmas carol of O Come All Ye Faithful about Christmas and feeling frustrated

Because our emotions tend to be peaked with anticipation, nostalgia, and a break in routine during this season, we feel there is a lot at stake. We have higher expectations than we tend to at other times of the year. Our priorities often stagger under the weight of assumed responsibility for others’ joy.

Afraid of failing Christmas, we often magnify our frustration the way Mary magnified the Lord. Share on X

Meanwhile, we have much better things to magnify. God’s Word then is just as true now. Jesus coming is the best news.

HE brings great JOY- and joy for ALL.

There’s a reason David praised God right after his son died. There’s a reason Paul, who knew the secret to contentment, sang in prison. There’s a reason Jesus for the joy set before Him went to the cross.

No matter how many of our fears are realized and how many unexpected twists there are, God provides. And His gifts are good.

Jesus’ joy is in us- and His joy is complete.

As our plans get messed up, our orders are delayed, our traditions are changed, our travels get wearisome, our goals for celebration seem dashed, our loved ones cheer sours with unmet expectation…

We can rejoice because we have nothing to fear, and God can make good for His glory out of our frustrations.



This celebration season, I’m seeking contentment in Christ. Will you join me for the rest of this 5 part series?

Part 1: It’s The (Maybe) Wonderful Time of the Year

Part 2: O Little Town of Mayhem

Part 3: O Come Next Year Immanuel


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10 responses to “O Come All Ye Frustrated”

  1. Joyful Abundant Life Avatar

    Love this! Thanks for sharing.

    1. mbethany Avatar

      So glad! Thank you!

  2. Rachel Lee Avatar

    “We have much better things to magnify.” Absolutely!
    Great post! Thanks for sharing.
    (Hopping over from Tea & Word) 😉

    1. mbethany Avatar
      mbethany

      Thanks, Rachel! Amen! (Great to meet you at Tea and Word!)

  3. Gayl Avatar

    “We can rejoice because we have nothing to fear, and God can make good for His glory out of our frustrations.” AMEN Thanks for this reminder for us during this Christmas season.

    Blessings to you! I’m your neighbor at #TellHisStory.

    1. mbethany Avatar
      mbethany

      What a wonderful Savior : ) Blessings to you too, Gayl!

  4. welcomeheart Avatar
    welcomeheart

    love it! pinned.

    1. mbethany Avatar
      mbethany

      Thanks! Merry Christmas, Sue!

  5. mareedee2016 Avatar

    Amen – So true the first Christmas was perfect because of Jesus but frustration had to have been all around it. After all they were human. Thank you!

    1. mbethany Avatar
      mbethany

      Exactly- they were human! Thankful Jesus was also fully God : ) Merry Christmas!

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