Bethany McIlrath

First and Second: Perspective On What Matters Most (Matthew 22:36-40)

  • The Worst Thing

    The Worst Thing

    To fight fear, my mind usually goes to the greatest extreme. What’s the worst that could happen? I go there mentally and play it all out. For many years, I’d wind up creating contingency plans and embracing unhealthy coping mechanisms for my worrying. The “fear-fighting” would end with me feeling the desperation of everything depending…

  • Who Do We Ask for Help?

    Who Do We Ask for Help?

    Sometimes, when I feel particularly overwhelmed by problems of my own and others, I find myself wishing there was more I could do than pray. Prayer just doesn’t feel like enough. But when I recognize who it is that I am asking for help when I pray, I see how much better His help is…

  • Love Isn’t a Feeling, But We Feel It

    Love Isn’t a Feeling, But We Feel It

    Love isn’t a feeling, but we feel it. Sometimes with a smile, a blush, and a racing heart. Sometimes with a tear as we grieve a loved one’s death. We feel it beyond the milestone moments, mindlessly saying it back to the person we just feel so comfortable with we’ve lost track of the weight…

  • Who Has Bewitched You?

    Who Has Bewitched You?

    “You foolish Galatian!” I say to myself. Who has bewitched me? Don’t I know Jesus died for me? After starting in the spirit am I finishing in the flesh? — Paul’s words in Galatians 3 convict me – and free me.  He argues over and over, coming from different angles, how silly it is for…

  • In No Hurry

    In No Hurry

      “But when the fullness of time had come, God sent forth his Son, born of woman, born under the law, to redeem those who were under the law, so that we might receive adoption as sons.” -Galatians 4:4-5   In the fullness of time, Jesus took the time to grow in Mary’s womb. 9…

  • 2022 Good List

    2022 Good List

    What a year it’s been! As the new year approaches, I’m following Laura Wifler’s lead and sharing a list of some of the good stuff of 2022. Finishing a 2-year chronological Bible plan; Revelation at Christmas time!! He has come, and He is coming again! Book club with my friends Shannon, Miriam, Abigail and Amelia…

  • The Christmas Choir You Already Signed Up For

    The Christmas Choir You Already Signed Up For

    All through the instrumental introduction, I was praying. We’d had a busy day – a busy week, a busy month – and many people were on my heart. Their needs and their joys played through my mind as the musicians on stage wordlessly proclaimed Christ’s glory. Then it was our turn to join in… Join…

  • I Didn’t Know Good Gifts Took Courage Too

    I Didn’t Know Good Gifts Took Courage Too

    A long-prayed-for dream is coming true, and the more real it becomes, the more terrified I am. I didn’t know it took courage to receive the good gifts too.  Favorite verses like “Take Heart!” always bring hardship to my mind. I associate bravery with holding fast when everything goes wrong. So I’ve been surprised to…

  • Thinking On What We Already Have

    Thinking On What We Already Have

    ‘Tis the season for writing out wishlists, filling the calendar, and stuffing our stomachs! Our to-do lists our longer than usual. At this time of year, we tend to spend more time thinking about we need, want, or plan on than usual. Sometimes it’s refreshing and helpful to remember what we already have. Join me at…

  • Cling to Christ

    Cling to Christ

    Stepping into the airplane, I noticed a sign that made me laugh.  The content wasn’t humorous. It wasn’t the design that cracked me up. There wasn’t really anything funny about the sign itself… But it was stuck with packaging tape…on to the side of a jet plane. Jet planes travel around 600-900 miles per hour….