Bethany McIlrath

First and Second: Perspective On What Matters Most (Matthew 22:36-40)

Tag: weakness

  • On Being Weak Well

    On Being Weak Well

    “In sickness and in health” was part of our relationship before we ever said our vows. When Matt and I met, he had already been diagnosed with a couple of chronic illnesses. Although I lived with chronic pain, his challenges were much more significant. We knew from the start that our lifestyle would be shaped…

  • 2 Good Reasons to Trade In Self-Esteem

    2 Good Reasons to Trade In Self-Esteem

    I have a few qualms with the simplified self-esteem mantra “you are enough.” Mostly because the statement raises more questions than it answers. What are we “enough” for? What qualifies as “enough”? Does “enough” run out, making it not enough? Who determines what “enough” is? How do we quantify “enoughness?” Is there a context for…

  • 3 Biblical Responses to Others’ Struggles

    3 Biblical Responses to Others’ Struggles

    Jesus’ words are clear: “in this world you will have trouble” (John 16:33). Often, harder than facing our own troubles is watching those we love struggle. We don’t always know how to help. 1. “Weep with those who weep” (Romans 12:15 NLT) When Lazarus died and his sisters mourned, Jesus wept. Standing with His friends,…