Bethany McIlrath

First and Second: Perspective On What Matters Most (Matthew 22:36-40)

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  • O Little Town of Mayhem

    O Little Town of Mayhem

    It seems Bethlehem was busy the night Jesus was born. Many people were traveling for the census, so Joseph and Mary found no traditional lodging. We can identify with that element of the Christmas story. This season often feels overwhelming, busy, and too full. But in the midst of the mayhem on that starry night…

  • It’s Almost The (Maybe) Wonderful Time of the Year

    It’s Almost The (Maybe) Wonderful Time of the Year

    Soon the roasted turkey will be packed away for future meals. The pie dishes will be rinsed clean. It often seems that all those thanks are then simply swept away as we hurry to get ready for Jesus coming. We are a people of “next things.” In our present time, the end of Thanksgiving seems…

  • Shutting Down Over-Productivity

    Shutting Down Over-Productivity

    Lord knows I’m a planner and producer. Productivity could be my middle name. I’ve got files and folders physical and digital stretching my future hopes into step-by-step endeavors. If you’ve got a topic to talk about, I’ve got a project you’re contributing to. The most visited destination in my mind is my idea mill. It’s…

  • A Tale of Two Men (And Their Riches)

    A Tale of Two Men (And Their Riches)

    Two men, many years apart in history, were blessed with abundance. With more riches than they could enjoy at the time of harvest, the men stored up the excess in granaries. They heaped up God’s provision and saved it for another time. There was a significant difference between the two, though. One man was generous…

  • When Resumes Don’t Match Dreams

    When Resumes Don’t Match Dreams

    Call me weird, but I love helping people with their resumes. It reminds me of those fun matching worksheets we’d fill out in school. Maybe you remember them too? One column might list dates. The other would outline events. We would draw a line between those that matched. Similarly, good resumes tend to align with…

  • Jesus’ I AM Statements and Your Identity

    Jesus’ I AM Statements and Your Identity

    The unchanging character of God is such an assurance. It seems like everything is always changing- which means there is always something new to adapt to, to embrace, to struggle with. But when we know the great I AM, we have someone to rely on always. What a gift that the unchanging, completely trustworthy, everlasting…

  • Starting Well Requires Forward Movement

    Starting Well Requires Forward Movement

    Part of starting well- no matter what we’re starting- is pushing steadily through the process of learning new things. “First days” and “starting fresh” can feel like being lost in the middle of nowhere while knowing there is a town just miles away. You know just enough to recognize there’s a lot to know that…

  • Starting Well is a Decision You Have to Make Over and Over Again

    Starting Well is a Decision You Have to Make Over and Over Again

    Looking up to my older friends, it once seemed to me that women in their late twenties suddenly fell into good practices. Many I know valued (and even enjoyed) eating healthy. A young mom I admired always woke up before her kids to workout. The older women in church seemed to know a ton of…

  • 4 Things to Ask Yourself Before You Give That Advice

    4 Things to Ask Yourself Before You Give That Advice

    I had a problem. I called up a friend and in the midst of our chatting I determined to act on the words of Proverbs 12:15: “The way of a fool is right in his own eyes, but a wise man listens to advice.” I asked for her advice. But her words took me by…

  • Lord, Help My Countenance!

    Lord, Help My Countenance!

    Sometimes all our favorite coping mechanisms fail us. Sometimes clearing our heads just makes the clutter in our hearts stand out more. Sometimes it’s not a matter of unbelief or challenging circumstances. Call it hormones. Label it mood. The fact is, sometimes despite what we believe, we just aren’t “feeling” it. While there are many…