Bethany McIlrath

First and Second: Perspective On What Matters Most (Matthew 22:36-40)

Category: Start Well Series

  • Starting Well Means Growing In Grace

    Starting Well Means Growing In Grace

    When we got married one of our premarital counseling activities was sitting down with my in-laws to ask a few prescribed questions. One question went something like “what’s something you learned when you started out that has been valuable?” My mother-in-law answered: “It was actually about parenting. Someone told me to never punish a child…

  • Starting Well Has to Do With Little Choices

    Starting Well Has to Do With Little Choices

    We often feel less like we’re making choices and more like we’re just doing what we have to do to keep going. We’re so used to making some decisions all day, every day that sometimes we forget we have choices. But the truth is our days are full of decisions. Even in the little things,…

  • Starting Well Requires Forward Movement

    Starting Well Requires Forward Movement

    Part of starting well- no matter what we’re starting- is pushing steadily through the process of learning new things. “First days” and “starting fresh” can feel like being lost in the middle of nowhere while knowing there is a town just miles away. You know just enough to recognize there’s a lot to know that…

  • Starting Well is a Decision You Have to Make Over and Over Again

    Starting Well is a Decision You Have to Make Over and Over Again

    Looking up to my older friends, it once seemed to me that women in their late twenties suddenly fell into good practices. Many I know valued (and even enjoyed) eating healthy. A young mom I admired always woke up before her kids to workout. The older women in church seemed to know a ton of…