Bethany McIlrath

First and Second: Perspective On What Matters Most (Matthew 22:36-40)

Category: Loving Others

  • Taking Fear Personally

    Taking Fear Personally

    Someone lied to you and you found out. Someone rejected you flat out. Someone ignored you, someone hurt you, someone who was supposed to care for you didn’t. We all have our someones. If we’re honest, everyone we know is a someone; everyone gives us cause for suspicion. I’m not paranoid- many of our fears…

  • I Wish American Christians Made A Bigger Deal Out of This Election

    I Wish American Christians Made A Bigger Deal Out of This Election

      With all the chaos breaking loose over this election, I wish we were making a bigger deal of it as Christians. So many of us believers are only making a big fuss about the candidates. This isn’t just about candidates. Some of us are proclaiming that this is all just about party lines. This…

  • Lie 3: Sin Defines You

    Lie 3: Sin Defines You

    (A series on lies sin tells us to tempt us and trick us. Join me in exposing sin’s lies to God’s Word in this 8 part series.) We more or less have a Sunday School answer memorized to counteract this lie: Christ defines who I am. But when it comes it to living it- predisposition…

  • Lie 2: Your Sin is Special

    Lie 2: Your Sin is Special

    (A series on lies sin tells us to tempt us and trick us. Join me in exposing sin’s lies to God’s Word in this 8 part series.) We don’t like to talk about our sin because we think people will judge us. So we believe a lie that keeps us isolated and alone, one that…

  • What Is Love

    What Is Love

    We know about many characteristics of love, traits like those listed in 1 Cor 13; patience, kindness, humility, etc. We certainly are aware of examples of Biblical love, like that provided in John 3:16. The Bible teaches us much about the actions and consequences of love, as in Romans 13 or John 15, which describe…

  • The Nature of Knowing

    The Nature of Knowing

    Do you know your husband’s face? Your mother’s hands? Your grandfather’s voice? This adorable video shows how children memorize their mother’s features: What about your loved ones’ preferences? Do you know what they are allergic too, what they colors they like, the phrases they say often? If you think about it, do you know what’s…

  • Equally Yoked Friendship

    Equally Yoked Friendship

    Ever participated in a three-legged race? Your leg is bound to a partner’s. Then, you’re supposed to run, together, to a destination. I remember the terror of participating in this sort of for-bystanders’-amusement-only activity. The image in my mind is fresh: I was looking up at someone I didn’t know, who appeared larger than life,…

  • 3 (Hopeful) Truths for the Overwhelmed

    3 (Hopeful) Truths for the Overwhelmed

    My calendar always ends up a mess. It seems like everything is happening at once and at the same time like the things that really matter to me aren’t happening at all. I notice plenty of hurry up and wait. In the meantime, I begin to hear the phrase “you can’t do it all.” Every…

  • Do #LivesMatter to God?

    Do #LivesMatter to God?

    Something breaks my heart extra as tragedy after tragedy arises. I wince over the propeller of much of the outrage being some agenda, not compassion. People are suffering at the hands of others… Terrorists. Radicals. Criminals. People of all races. Police Officers. Child Predators. Children. Parents. Even Wild Animals. Killed and killing. And People are…

  • In Medicine We Trust

    In Medicine We Trust

    {The third installment in the In ____We Trust Series} Disclaimer before the outrage: I go to the doctor. I believe the Lord blessed us with brains and am thankful that He has led so many into the medical field and can work so much healing through medical intervention. I also believe that if the Lord…