Bethany McIlrath

First and Second: Perspective On What Matters Most (Matthew 22:36-40)

Category: Life of Faith

  • Love Isn’t a Feeling, But We Feel It

    Love Isn’t a Feeling, But We Feel It

    Love isn’t a feeling, but we feel it. Sometimes with a smile, a blush, and a racing heart. Sometimes with a tear as we grieve a loved one’s death. We feel it beyond the milestone moments, mindlessly saying it back to the person we just feel so comfortable with we’ve lost track of the weight…

  • Who Has Bewitched You?

    Who Has Bewitched You?

    “You foolish Galatian!” I say to myself. Who has bewitched me? Don’t I know Jesus died for me? After starting in the spirit am I finishing in the flesh? — Paul’s words in Galatians 3 convict me – and free me.  He argues over and over, coming from different angles, how silly it is for…

  • Cling to Christ

    Cling to Christ

    Stepping into the airplane, I noticed a sign that made me laugh.  The content wasn’t humorous. It wasn’t the design that cracked me up. There wasn’t really anything funny about the sign itself… But it was stuck with packaging tape…on to the side of a jet plane. Jet planes travel around 600-900 miles per hour….

  • Times I’ve Rediscovered I’m Not God

    Times I’ve Rediscovered I’m Not God

    I’d never outright tell you, or myself, that I’m God. But sometimes I live like I am. Like when… Something I’ve worried about endlessly works out without my intervention. God is sovereign, I am not. I see God change someone’s heart who I thought I’d need to push and pull into growing the way I…

  • Do You Think About These Things?

    Do You Think About These Things?

    “Bethanyland is a magical place,” I like to say to my husband when he calls me back to reality because I stopped listening and got lost in thought (again). The truth is, I spend a lot of time thinking. Most of us do. We dwell on things in the shower, in the car, at work,…

  • The Steadfast One

    The Steadfast One

    Our car broke down. Gainful employment was scarce. We’d struggled to find a new church community after moving. Loved ones faced challenges with their health and needed help, but traveling to reach them was more than we could afford.   Overall, it seemed we were lacking. We were short on finances, resources, energy, community, availability, and…

  • Here to Help

    Here to Help

    On any given day, my internet browser tabs featured Indeed, Zillow, Google Maps, and Bible Gateway.We were in a wilderness.The season we’d been in was ending, but we had no idea of our next. I’d like to say I waited patiently for God’s leading, but truthfully, my frequent visits to those tabs proved otherwise. I believed God…

  • Who You Work For

    Who You Work For

    “Work willingly at whatever you do, as though you were working for the Lord rather than for people.” Colossians 3:23 (NLT) A faded blue post-it on my desk reads: No changes. Well done. Brilliant. Not bad. Good job. This mini-rubric helps me rank the quality of what I do as I receive others’ feedback.  It’s…

  • The Opportunity You Can’t See Yet

    The Opportunity You Can’t See Yet

    You look around and nothing seems promising. The only way ahead, it would seem, is to keep trudging along. It feels wrong and it sounds hopeless. No opportunities have come up and you’re running out of ones to dream up. Hang in there. Nothing is impossible with God. That means that when there is no…

  • The Value of Asking “Why Me?”

    The Value of Asking “Why Me?”

    Reading straight through Scripture, I knew the book of Job was coming next. Sighing to my husband, I began to prepare myself. Job is one of those books that I stiffen up reading. His story begins like a fairytale- prosperity, happiness, abundance. That almost makes what happens next worse. Satan comes before God. He’s been…